When our middle son was born
When our middle son was born we timed the birth for Sept 1 so that Diane could return to her teaching job right away.
We missed by 10 days, but by mid September she felt like she wanted to be a full time stay at home mom.
She just could'nt leave him, even though our daughter was 8 by then.
We felt fortunate to be able to swing it financialy, so we raised him and his younger brother the old traditional way with Mom at home and we just did without the extras we had gotten used to.
At some point she felt the need to return to teaching, and was very upset at not working outside the home.
She started back with subbing, then 1/2 time permanent position, then 6/10 time , and until last spring 7/10 time.
She loved it, and was so happy to be back to teaching/working outside the home.
The current economy brought changes to the district, and her choice for this year was either no job or full time, divided between two schools. She's a special ed teacher, so each school has it's own requirements they want met, their own meetings, etc. Also, they split her work day between both schools, even though the mid day drive between them makes it so inefficient.
She's now tearing her hair out, I have'nt seen her so stressed since she had no work!
Curriculum night at TWO schools, two principals, two sets of meetings, etc.
It's good to work, but it's rare when the job and workload is just perfect.
She had achieved that level with her last 7/10 time position, and loved every minute of it.
Fridays off, and Monday afternoon off as well. ONE school to deal with. PRICELESS!
Sadly I believe that the new model for MOST of us will be either unwanted unemployment, or stressed out over-work.
To bad we can't just roll our own job exactly how we want it!
DISCLAIMER:
I'm self employed, and do just that. It's very rare these days though.