NickW
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Having had lot of training with knives, hand to hand combat, and firearms of all sorts, I understand this reasoning, but I really think knives and guns are not the way to go at all when running (which is weird because I am very pro weapons for self defense). You would have to secure each very well on your person so you didn't inadvertently hurt yourself while running. Most attacks you may not even know are going to happen until the perp is nearly or already on top of you, especially at night. Trying to pull a weapon free in time is going to be difficult and worse, the perp may get it while wrestling with you while you're trying to get it free. Best to have a big dog and/or learn some sort of hand to hand combat.Knives are too close range, too risky.
Martial arts require years of training and even so the greater upper body strength of a man may neutralize whatever advantage in technique you have gained. Best to learn how to launch a powerful kick to the groin, or kick out his knee, then run. Low kicks are hard to see coming, don't take too long to develop, deliver about as much power for a woman as for a man (pound for pound, women have just as much lower body strength as men), and you can maintain balance relatively well. High kicks are worthless in street-fighting, punches bring you in too close where he can grab you and turn it into a grappler's game. OK, you can learn lethal or crippling moves, like collapsing the windpipe or gauging the eyes, but most women have a hard time actually following through on this, even when their lives are at stake. And basically, in any street fight or attack, you have to assume that the worst possible outcome--death--is possible, so you might as well just get a hand gun so that you can keep some distance between you and the perp. Shoot at the upper legs until you've drained the gun, or at least for the first four shots, because you have to assume you're going to miss at least a couple of times. Meanwhile he's closing in on you. This stuff is a lot different than in the movies. I trained martial arts twenty years ago, and even used it a couple of times to defend myself, but would I use it now? Absolutely not! It's not something you know forever and ever. If you don't keep practicing, your skills will deteriorate. Same with handguns--it's a lot harder to hit a target than in the movies. I vote dog first, not running in the dark in the middle of nowhere second, and hand gun third.
There was a fighting style I learned while in the military that shocked me at how easy it was for me (a short 5'7" 160lb guy) to over power a 6' 200lb plus man enough to be able to save my own butt. I don't recall what this style was called (not a normal martial art, it took bits and pieces from all different types and was geared as strictly for using defense as an offense) but it was very easy and saved my butt in a real life situation against a 6'3"+ Afghan man who attacked me. It was similar in some ways to a jujitsu (which I have had some training in too), but then it also had some unique concepts. I've taught my daughter bits and pieces of it so she can defend herself if she ever needs to. Anyhow, I think a true type of krav magra (spelling may be off) would be best. It's geared for defending yourself and being able to fend off multiple attackers and women can really excel at this type of martial art. I believe it is what the Israeli military (police maybe, can't remember exactly) uses. It is a very effective fighting method that can give you enough time until someone else gets there or for you to get away. This combined with a dog would be the best, or just running with a partner.