im afraid of critics i would like to never wore shoes, i hate them,i would like to go like dogs go without shoes, i dont need any shoe but some people like to judge and bully
I think it's easier (less judgement) for a female to walk (and run) around in public than a male.
Also, I am nearsighted, so I never see the expressions on people's faces (or street signs). I've trained my mind to just look ahead and focus on what I have to. I walk (and ran) around barefoot oblivious to what others think. Perhaps you could avoid looking into people's faces long enough to build up your courage and confidence. Then, if you do see a sour look, just smile and ignore it.
If you SMILE REAL BIG!!! Others will smile back.
Just go out barefoot and don't worry about the looks and comments. Smile and just act normal (which you are doing). Ignore the negative comments, keep a positive attitude. Enjoy the comments that you do get. Kids are great. For a while avoid going into stores, but when you do, start with retail stores. I've never had a problem. I would guess from other posters here that the most problems happen at restaurants, cafes, or gyms. Dress casual, not too grubby and not too dressed up. A suit with bare feet is a weird combination that would draw attention. From my experience, most people don't even look down at the feet. Go for it.
Look outwards, not inwards. If you are afraid just do things in little steps until you gain confidence.
i didnt understood the inwards and outwards
yes little by little helps
No one said anything about "fake" smiles. I have real joy in my life; and especially when I am shoeless, I am likely to be smiling. That said, I have learned that when you ask for advice, you are seeking something to shoot down, and I am done giving you advice. If you are so miserable you cannot put on a smile, then wear your Nikes with disdain. Enjoy!
no no but i mean like going with fake mp3, to act like you didnt hear what others said, what do you think about that barefoot TJ?I don't think people should wear ear phones and listen to music, etc., if they are out running where they could be hurt by a car or attacked by someone.